|Izzy and her BFF on their first day of preschool... things were so much simpler then!|
I know, it absolutely terrible that my children haven't even started school yet and I am already viewing it as a battle. But I don't mean the battle to get up and get ready in the morning, the battle to get homework done, or the battle to put the backpack where the backpack belongs. I mean the battle(s) with the school. I try not to be a pessimist, but I also think it's best to hope for the best and prepare for the worst. So I'm preparing.
What could I possibly have a problem with? The list is longer than it should be. You know, if you read this blog regularly, that I can be a little nutty about things- what mom isn't a little nutty about her kids?
One that I'm really gearing up for is the use of both alcohol based hand sanitizer and antibacterial soap. I'm prepared to go to battle on the soap, particularly, as it's not like I can send Izzy to school with her own soap. I've got a letter drafted and information from both the CDC and Minnesota Department of Health that back me up. So far as hand sanitizer goes, I'm willing to compromise. As long as that compromise involves Izzy keeping her own bottle of alcohol free hand sanitizer in her desk (or wherever). I'll even buy a bottle of the crappy stuff for the classroom, as long as my daughter doesn't have to use it. And I know what you're thinking, why not just supply the classroom with a better alternative? Well, first of all what good would it do with the other 20 kids' parents send the bad stuff. Also, I can't find any that comes in the size of bottle they're asking for (8 oz), I can only find the little purse sized spray bottles.
School supplies are another area I'm willing to go to bat, if necessary. However, this year it's not that bad. They did request all name brand items, but they were all on sale at Target, and there were only a few items to buy. And as a former teacher, I get it. They plan to pool the supplies, so they need them to all be the same to prevent conflict.
Lunch is freaking me out a little as well. Obviously Izzy will be taking her lunch. This particular freak out actually has nothing to do with the school itself. It has to do with my super picky 4 year old who will only eat like five things. Nothing with sauce. Nothing with dip. The only sandwich she will regularly eat is peanut butter, which I'm assuming will be (rightly) banned from her school. I normally don't accommodate her pickiness at all when fixing meals- she eats what I prepare, or she doesn't eat. But I'm having an internal battle about her school lunches- do I fix varied meals regardless of whether she is going to eat it, or do I prepare the few things I know she likes? Am I setting myself up to fail in the future by only packing things she likes? I know, I'm totally overthinking this...
And, of course, I'm worried about the awful things that happened to me in grade school happening to her. I'm worried that she will be the slowest and most uncoordinated person in her class like I was (an unfounded fear, I'm pretty sure she's fast and coordinated for her age). I'm worried she'll struggle with math and numbers like I did (I'm discalculic... it's a real disorder, I promise!). I'm worried about the mean kids teasing her about... well, they always find something, don't they.
The only thing I am not worried about is my baby growing up. As freakin' adorable as toddlers are, I love watching my kids grow up. The older they get the more fun and interesting they get. The older they get the EASIER they get. I know there aren't a lot of moms who agree with me... I'm weird like that:)